feralfae,
First of all, I hope you'll please let us see more of your art online. I've seen a piece or two, I believe, but ... more, more, more!
Also ... I just saw your message for the first time today, but you bet I've given the subject much thought. I don't take stolen money, either. Not for my writing, not for the little bit of art I do. And thank you for doing (or not doing) the same.
I made an exception only once, nearly 20 years ago, for a state agency that was really extraordinarily well-run and purposeful. But even then, my conscience bothered me and I was glad when that contract ended.
It's always hard to be "pure," because where does one draw the line? I used to write for big corporations, and every one of them is hand-in-pocket with government at various levels. So in each case, I tried to use judgment: Does this businss exist for some other purpose than filling government requirements? Does most of its money come from honest trade? Does it cooperate with government only to the extent that it has to to survive?
Claire