No, you choose to fight for what is right. Sometimes the outcome is death. If you are all alone in that fight, your chances are not so good.
What these folks want is an exception. They're probably perfectly happy if everyone else is forced to do whatever, but they believe they should have an opt out because of their religion. If there are enough of them, they might get that exception. If not, then probably not. But as long as people are content to allow the oppression on others, to create these "special" groups with privilege, it will continue.
You have told many stories on this forum about all the people in Romania who simply ignored the government and made their own choices in spite of everything. Not frontal confrontation, last battle type, but simply going around, under and over the obstacles.
So now you're saying there's no hope and we might as well all knuckle under? I don't believe it.
The newer generation of people from that part of the world are no longer that mentallity. They were raised Americanish, obedient, worshipful of the state. Once "jobs" and "freedom" came, they stopped talking with their kids and the "educators" became the only engine of information insertion into the kids' brains. My compatriots are no longer even remotely my peers unless their parents still hated the tyranny as much as they used to in the old days.
(We all know "political freedom" bullshit, but hey, at least now they can watch 50 channels of TV to vege out when they get home, instead of having only the dictator's speeches on 2 channels, a half hour of cartoons and lots of family time to educate the kids and spend time with them.)
More to the point, I'm not saying "keel over" or "no choice" but I am also saying that attitudes such as the following are somewhat erroneous. I will address once I quote. Saying that dying is a choice, is simply mistaken. There is almost always a reason to live (unless suffering terribly and then the choice may become a choice), even if that reason is "because that's how we are born."
Take my children and I go to war on your entire criminal gang. If I'm alone in that war, I'll probably die pretty early on, but I'll take as many of you kidnapping fucks with me as I can.
And I am here to tell you that going to war Carl Drega style is a waste of a good man or a good mind. Your enemies are numerous. If you go on a suicide rampage, you make the rest of us freedom loving folks look psychotic (even if you have good reason: "they took your kids" is a GOOD reason to get ta' fightin') and your kids will be raised worshiping the very state that you failed to defeat in a suicide run.
No, what will end this is concerted, covert fighting, if any fighting at all. Remember the story of Vercingetorix and Julius Caesar in his Gaul campaign. Vercingetorix could have had Caesar kissing his boot... if his peers had not chosen to "valiantly" attack rather than continue to deny Caesar the decisive head to head battle that Caesar's army required for both morale and progress in the campaign.
So let me rephrase your quote, brother (I have no children, nor do I intend to have such liabilities any time soon):
Take my children and I go to war. Alone I will be that ghost in your machine, that Keyser Sose, the Candyman, the Freddy Kruger of your deepest nightmares. You won't know when, you won't know how, but I will extinguish even the seeds of your loins before you even know I was there. You took my progeny from me, you ended my line by brainwashing my offspring against my and their wills. The scales will be evened, and not even death will stop me. For I am many, and our name is Legion..."
Something like that.

I'm sure they all watched Storm of the Century on Sci Fi when it was out.