Elias,
A lack of response on my end was not indication of boredom for your thoughts. Familial needs will always come first, something I am sure you agree with.
I have no hesitation with the darker side of things, if you will, as it seems totally plausible to me. You did a very thorough and fantastic job laying down the background of it all. Like you said, now comes the brainstorming part.
I totally dig your enthusiasm for wanting to start a woman’s group and I am right there with you. How to do so? I haven’t the faintest! A few years ago I was so gun-ho to pack up and move to someplace like Montana. I was already there in spirit, DH just needed a job. Doors opened up here and I feel very blessed to live here, though I dream of moving from time to time. I would love to be on the ground floor of something amazing – even something I feel passionate about, which is educating and inspiring and blessing other mommy’s. What exactly that looks like, I honestly don’t know!
Until then, I am diligently looking for opportunities to get other women to think. I mean really think, by reaching them through in an area I know best: their feelings. I believe I have a good example - my memory triggered by a thread created by RVM45 regarding a conversation that went little awry with his sister.
The other night coming home from my homeschooling meeting (a few of us moms meet once a month) the companion in my car brought up a law in Germany that will not allow parents to name their children anything they want. She said she doesn’t think everyone should be told what to do by the government, but… there oughta be a law about not naming your kids something harmful.
I listened to her, nodded my head and said, “I understand. People can be quite outlandish in their choices. And you hate to see a child live under the seemingly insanity of their parents naming them something with Hitler or Stalin in it. Or having to be harassed mercilessly for being named Kandy Kane or Little Bo Beep. However, as much as I don’t want to see that, what I definitely don’t want to see are laws being passed saying that a parent doesn’t have that choice. The problem isn’t that someone might do something we think is outrageous, the problem is that once you make a law, you have to enforce it.* And who, in their right mind would say that it is okay to jail a parent because they named their child Krispy Kreme or Aunt Joo-joo or Donald Trump? Why on earth would you separate a child from their mom [gotta bring it home] because of a name? Why would you deprive and punish a child like that? Because remember, if there is a law it must be enforced. Could you enforce it?”
Perhaps I am onto to something… Perhaps I will work on some ideas I can implement in my little world of influence… And perhaps in doing so I might be able to come up with something useful (a girl can dream, right?!?) in regards to your idea…
*Nod of thanks to Silver!