Cy,
According to this site, the "stages of grief" are:
1 - Shock and denial
2 - Pain and guilt
3 - Anger and bargaining
4 - Depression, reflection, loneliness
5 - The upward turn
6 - Reconstruction and working through
7 - Acceptance and hope
Found:
http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief.htmlI mean to simply apply this to my situation. Of course others must interpret their own experiences, beliefs and ideas for themselves. Like I said, there are a lot of rabbit holes one could lose themselves in, and it would have been nice, mighty nice, if I had a mentor to coach me through that really "bad trip." Seriously, I went about three weeks with little eat and precious sleep. I had awful nightmares and I was "tripping" pretty bad. It lessened after those first few weeks, but the bad taste was still left in my mouth for many, many months.
If someone with more knowledge and experience and wisdom had been around they might quite possibly saved me much trouble. "No, Child. That's not the way of it." Or, "Yes, Child. Question that. And then that." And most needed, "No, Child. Do not concern yourself with such falsehoods. Those are red herrings meant to distract from the Truth, to deter you on your journey to becoming a powerfully informed individual. Stay focused. Don't be discouraged. Those are parlor tricks and dog and pony shows for the faint hearted. Be strong. You will be better for it, and here's why and here's how..."
I am not one to jump on the bandwagon that automatically assigns folks the sheeple/clueless/idiots label. I have pity for those not yet "awake." I do not cast everyone into the "enemy" category simply because they have not (yet) chosen to be aware. My patience does wear thin sometimes with those who deliberately stick their head in the sand - BUT, I still get why they would chose to do so.
Because of my personal faith I am exposed to a certain sect of individuals or those with a certain upbringing or those with a certain mindset. I get them, and I know that would be my area of calling if I so choose. Others have written them off, but not I.
Needless to say, my experience leaves me with great empathy for others. To lead individuals to the fountain of great discovery is a privilege at the very least. I leave it to others to argue whether it's even morally mandatory to do so. I won't shrug off my obligation to my children, which is one of the reasons I homeschool. At times it's hard, it's taxing, and it wears thin, but I love them too damn much not to try to suck at something new (a little humor. I would like to think I am improving!)
The bottom line for me is that I would not approach sharing the Truth via scaremongering and conspiracy theories. Gentle is the approach I take. I do know when to be brash and bold, and I know when to be kind and patient. Either choice is deliberate on my account.